Our chief want is someone who will inspire us to be what we know we
could be.” ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
It all started with a visit from a man who
lives in our neighborhood and who, when it is warm, walks his dog, a beautiful
collie, by our house. Normally, when he
used to come by I would be sitting in the front yard, reading, with my dog,
Flick, a large Brittany spaniel. From
across the street, on the sidewalk, he would yell to me, “Get that inferior
mutt away! It is interfering with the glory that is my dog!” Every time when he came by he hurled funny
insults on my dog from across the street. One afternoon I was sitting alone in yard, not
reading, just thinking, and he called to me, “Where is your mutt?” I told him that
Flick had died and he stood on the corner and cried. He said, “Oh my God, Tom.
You lost your best friend, didn’t you?” I teared up. “Yes, Clare, I did.”
When we got Lexi, a pure American Bulldog who
was on her way to a shelter, our neighbor came by and walked up to where I was
sitting in the yard, yet again reading, with her on my lap. His dog and ours started playing. He said, “So
I see you got yourself another alley mutt…although, I guess she really is a
very pretty dog.” I said, “She is very
affectionate to everyone and likes all people until the girls get home and then
that is who she wants to be with. Flick was my dog but she is everyone’s dog;
mostly Karen’s and Meredith’s. She
sleeps with Meredith every night.”
As we sat and talked, watched the dogs run
around, he asked, “You know my daughter, Katie, right?” I said that I did. I
have known Katie since she was a little girl. He said, “Well, she just got out
of college and is looking for an internship.
She wants to do event planning and I know you were in Marketing for a
long time, so I thought you might be able to help her to find an
internship.” I nodded and said,. “Have
her come by sometime and bring me her resume.
I’ll see what I can do.”
A few days later Katie came by the garage
studio. She said, “Mr. Sharpe, I sent you my resume but I’m not sure you got
it.” I said, “Katie, I don’t check my e-mails as much as I should.” I went on
my computer and found it. “OK, here it is. Let me print it off and I’ll go
through it. By the way, don’t call me Mr. Sharpe anymore. You’re old enough
now. My name is Tom. Make yourself at home out here.”
I went into the house to get the paper off
the printer and when I came back out into the garage I found Katie walking
around, looking intently at all memorabilia, Pez dispensers, clocks, and
pictures I keep in my studio. Katie is a very complex, interesting, and nice
girl. Her whole life she has had to struggle with physical, cognitive and
speech problems. She was in the hospital
a lot when she was younger. Despite that she was never stopped from doing what she
wanted to do as she grew up. While Katie
was exploring things, I sat at my bench,
read, and edited her resume. It was quite fine, just needed a little work.
At one point she stopped and asked, “Tom,
what made you do this?’ In return, I asked, “What do you mean, Katie?” She said, “I want to know what inspired you
to build this. I want to know what inspires you to do your art and what
inspires you to do your writing…Dad says you’re a good writer.” I thought for a
moment and then I said, “I don’t have an answer to that right now, Katie. I
don’t know that I really understand what drives me or why I do what I do. I
love it but I have never questioned it.”
She shrugged her shoulders. “OK. What do you think of my resume?”
\I gave her my edits, advised on some reformatting,
and we went through it so she would
understand why I suggested the changes I did. When she was leaving she again
said, “Tom, I want to know what inspires you. Next time I see you I want an
answer.” She gave me a hug and walked away towards her house.
Katie’s question preyed on mind for a long
time. On a long winter’s night, after I saw her walking the dog down the street
n the afternoon, I thought, “I really do need to get on top of this. Katie
deserves an answer.” I didn’t have a clue, so what I did, being a marketing
research kind of guy, is to put that simple question, “What inspires you?” out
on social media and then I started randomly talking to people about it. The
responses I have received thus far are amazing.
Here are some of them.
My friend from school, Venus, said, “When I was younger the only inspiration I had was
survival. It smothered me in so many ways. Having "survived" the
world inspires me through nature and creativity. My kids inspire me to be a
better person at all times, not just when people are looking.
Another dear friend,
Bridget, said, “Anyone who overcomes adversity to accomplish a dream, goal,
etc. Those who “believe” despite naysayers, odds, etc. They all inspire and
affirm my belief that the greatest power in all of us lies within...”
A guy I have known since I
was 8 years old and who works in body shop, Todd, told me about his passion for
rebuilding classic cars. “It's one of the only
hobbies where you can do some of the work, drive it around, and show it off. It
seems to go a long way with me, and keeps me somewhat motivated.
My geometry teacher in
high school, David, who is now a successful playwright, responded, “Much of my inspiration comes my personal search to discover how to maintain my individuality and survive
in a society that demands conformity, and what happens when that conformity
isn't possible. This may be summarized in one word; Emerson.”
Matt, a kid of exceptional
talent, who lives in New Hampshire, writes and plays music, and also makes his
own guitars, had this to say, “Yeah man. I think I owe a lot of inspiration to
Terry Kath [Chicago front man] of course, but otherwise, I think it's this
constant drive to just write a better song than the last.
Melissa Marie, who is a very
compassionate counselor and social worker, wrote me a very long answer but her
opening line is what I like best. “My first thought is humans. People inspire
me. I don’t think I could do the work that I do without holding this tenant.”
Coralie, the breeder and
shower of dogs, gave me this. “A beagle in a flat out
run, voice sounding off, tail up enjoying the outdoors, sunshine or snow, never
matters. Then they come back to you so tired they can barely walk...you pick
them up and they lick your face half off, happy that you love them, grateful as
you carry them back to the car to go home.”
During this experiment I heard from so many
people from all walks of life that were willing to answer my question. I just wish
I had room to share them all in their entirety. Stories of love, faith, overcoming adversity, passion
that drives their inspiration. All of them are inspiring in their own right. I think I’m going to have to build a website
soon.
I think one of the best things I heard during
my project was from the Indian man who runs the convenient store by my house.
Ivor said to me, “If I am not inspired by everything than what else?...Only despair.”
Katie got her internship last summer and did
very well. She stopped by the house the other day to have me look at her resume
again and to ask me for a referral. It’s something I was happy to do. After we were
done editing her resume again, I said, “I have an answer to your question from
before…the one about inspiration, Katie.” She smiled and said, “Tell me, Tom.” This is
my answer.
“I firmly believe that God gave me a gift to
write and to do art and I should not squander that gift. What inspires me is my memory of where I came
from and the experiences that made me who I am. I also am inspired by my
imagination of what the future might look like. What mostly inspires me is watching
and listening to the world around me, here and now. There are a lot of people with
a lot of interesting stories and I like being a conduit to share them in some
way or form…especially if those people can’t do it themselves. I can’t
live without writing because it would be like losing a lung to me.”
Katie picked
up her folder and put on her jacket. “I like that answer, Tom.” I opened the garage
door. She gave me quick hug and walked down the driveway. Over her shoulder she said, “Tom, your clocks
are all dead. Time to put in new batteries and reset them. It is spring now…We
move ahead.”
Inspiration. Stay tuned.
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